Setting Expectations: What to Clarify So No One Feels Awkward

Before the swap, both host and guest need to clearly set expectations. Discuss house rules—like pets, smoking, or shoe policies. Clarify which areas of the home guests can use, parking availability, quiet hours, and how much interaction you prefer during the stay. It’s also important to cover practical details, such as how to handle mail or deliveries, garbage collection, and any security codes or alarms.

Once you’ve arranged your initial call or message, use that time to walk through these points together. Being upfront about these details helps avoid confusion and awkward moments when you arrive. It also builds trust and respect on both sides, making the swap smoother and more enjoyable.